You’re done with the casual chitchat about the weather. You’re back to your quest for just the facts, and you have a mission in mind. You want to know what the person you’re with is really all about, way down deep. Just don’t scare them off. You know how you get when you’re really intent on something, so take a breath. Go easy, at least to start with. You’ll get your information. Who could possibly refuse that look?